Relationship Therapist in Seattle, WA

Working with people in all relationship structures

I offer in-person sessions in Seattle, WA and telehealth appointments for people in Washington and Idaho.

Our Services

  • Relationship therapy helps you untangle sticky patterns, name deeper needs, and build the kind of connection that actually lasts. We’ll slow things down, map your conflict cycle, and practice communication that lands with care. With gentle structure and real-world tools, you’ll learn to repair faster, set healthy boundaries, and feel securely attached. When empathy leads and defensiveness softens, trust grows—and, before you know it, closeness starts to feel natural again.

  • Couples counseling gives you a practical playbook for navigating tough conversations without spinning out. We’ll strengthen communication, increase emotional attunement, and turn criticism into curiosity. From conflict resolution and intimacy blocks to mismatched desires and lingering resentments, nothing’s off-limits. You’ll leave sessions with bite-sized skills, shared language, and a plan for repair. When you feel seen and valued, small daily moments—wow—become the heartbeat of your relationship.

  • Whether you’re partnered or exploring solo, relationship counseling clarifies values, needs, and boundaries so your connections feel grounded and authentic. We’ll look at attachment patterns, nervous system cues, and those “here we go again” triggers, transforming them into opportunities for growth. Expect down-to-earth guidance, reflective exercises, and skills you can use right away. With more self-trust and relational insight, you’ll choose connection from a place of steadiness, not survival.

  • Marriage counseling helps you step out of old loops—stonewalling, blame, the silent treatment—and into shared understanding. We’ll rebuild trust, smooth conflict, and rekindle intimacy with tools for repair and emotional safety. Practical strategies meet heart-forward conversations as we tackle sticky topics like parenting, finances, roles, and expectations. Bit by bit, you’ll trade scorekeeping for teamwork. When the foundation feels solid, commitment stops feeling heavy and starts feeling alive.

  • Marriage therapy dives deeper to heal attachment wounds, resentment, and intimacy droughts at the root. We’ll surface underlying narratives, practice emotionally honest dialogue, and rework habits that keep you distant. Using a balance of compassion and accountability, you’ll learn to soothe each other’s stress, negotiate differences, and reawaken desire. As safety builds, vulnerability follows—and with it, a steady, enduring bond that feels like home, not hard work.

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Instead of looking to the other to meet your needs, if you want to reignite your love life, you must take on the responsibility of your own desire.

—Esther Perel